Father-daughter relationship: "Daddy must be perfect, otherwise he's off"
"With girls, it's never easy, except when they are small, at that moment, we are the most beautiful, the most formidable, a living god! Too bad this period does not last. After, the girls become more distant, more secretive, they are more cuddly than boys of course, but also much harder, among themselves but also towards themselves and others.
Having girls taught me to be a father. At first, I spoke to them as I seemed to be good but I was a little too brutal. So I had to learn to measure my words, to understand the difficulties of being a woman. But being a good dad is also very delicate. We do not want to have a gesture that could be misinterpreted, so finally we do not do much to show the affection we feel for his children. It's hard to find a happy medium.
For a man, it seems completely ridiculous to spend hours in the bathroom or change his outfit three times a day. It's not easy to put yourself in the minds of your children and understand the reasons for this or that behavior, but in the end, you learn a lot. Being a woman who cares is far from obvious. It's a bit like a rose that takes 25 years to open. It takes time but it is worth it.
But the most impressive is the ability of girls to make you understand what is good or not and to tell you frankly things. Not forgetting that they do not forgive: their father must be perfect, otherwise he will emerge. "
What relationship do you have with your father?
